I have made it almost a daily habit to remind the people close to me how important they are to me and how they have inspired me to be a better person. Today being national best friend day I want to start off this post by thanking the younger brother I never had , Austin . Yo bro honestly you are on e of the most unique individuals I've ever met . You are a lot like me yet totally different . I'm proud of everything you are doing and I'm your number one fan bro , can't wait to see you start knocking school out the way again. The fact you work full time and are stressed all the time you still find the time to be a great friend to everyone around you. We always talk about it's the thoughtful things, the shit that is actually super easy when you think about it are the ones that mean the most. You live that shit everyday just as I try to. You are truly an inspiration and I'm proud to call you my little brother lol .
Today was great actually. I'm sure I'm annoying people by constantly talking about my dieting and I'm sorry lol . I just feel like maybe one person will be inspired , will take a leap to a healthier and happier self. I also really strive to inspire people to be the best version of themselves .
But anyway
Today's activities
Yoga
Work
Gym
Xbox
Blog
Sleep
Today I ate some eggs with peppers and onions , a bag of pineapple , a bag of strawberries , a bag of cantaloupe, a banana, a salmon filet with a salad , and some chicken. Eating clean day 4 was a success. Only liquid I've had all week is water ! It's def weird lol
I had a friend ask me for some relationship advice. Disclaimer I am the white harrier hitch. I give pretty superb advice (not to toot my own horn but beep beep) when it comes to my
Own relationships this shit goes out the window for some reason (working on that). Now people mistake relationship advice and think it's simply between significant others but in reality relationship advice can be helpful in platonic relationships too.
Question: I have been on and off dating (going on dates but not in a relationship) with this girl. We really connect on a super special level but she's bisexual and more into girls than guys and has basically stated I have a 10 percent chance. Now normally when someone is taken or not interested I shuffle out the door like any normal person but since me and her connected so well i really want to be with her .should I just stay friends with her in this weird on off spot and just enjoy her friendship or should I just remove myself from the scenario so I can just move on.
Fair question, thank you again for the submission !
You need to ask yourself a few questions. First , what type of friendship would we have? Would I be so enthralled with the idea of dating her that it will add toxicity to the relationship when she doesn't agree? If that's the case then you gotta just peel fam. I did that for far too long with someone and we went from best friends to her hating me basically. It's best if you cannot truly commit to her as a friend then for the both of you you should walk.
If you walk, you gotta tell her everything. Including why your removing yourself from the situation . Because you are on your way out anyway you might as well ditch the mystery show we all out on throughout the buildup to a relationship. It's time to push all your chips in don't leave anything out that you feel will weigh you down. Once you have said what you needed to say you leave . If it's meant to happen she will be back, I promise and if not then back to the drawing board.
I want to leave you all with this . I have never felt happier in my life since I began this transformation . I feel clear headed , focused, determined , and joyful. Whether it's changing your eating habits or changing the way you treat others I urge you to make a change . I challenge everyone that reads this to reflect for 5 minutes after reading this . Grab a piece of paper after the 5 mins and write down 3 things you think that if you changed you'd be a better person. Then put it into action! Would love to share some of your stories if anyone actually does it and wants to share with the readers that would be awesome . Send me a message on Facebook about the 3 things you tried to change and how you made the effort to do so ! Thanks everyone , Love y'all for real
Chris, Heir of Slytherin
"Don't take these bitches to yo favorite place to eat, they gon be there without you fam" - Damonte
"I talk grey , I don't speak in white and black. Only say I love you just so I can hear it back "
- drake (to the max)
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